Jim Bob's Marriage Tips : 19 Kids and Counting : TLC#mkcpgn=fbtlc1#mkcpgn=fbtlc1#mkcpgn=fbtlc1
good advice!
December 10, 2010
decisions decisions
What should we do--
A- blow out anniversary weekend. first one ALONE in 13 yrs
B- finish the flooring the front part of the house so we could like have people over and NOT stare at the hole in the floor
C- get me an Iphone cause Hubby has one and I am jealous
D- save $$$. be boring all weekend like normal and complain that we never do anything different or fun
Ps- the children will be gone for the whole weekend no matter what :) getting to enjoy time with one of my favorite midwives and her hubby
A- blow out anniversary weekend. first one ALONE in 13 yrs
B- finish the flooring the front part of the house so we could like have people over and NOT stare at the hole in the floor
C- get me an Iphone cause Hubby has one and I am jealous
D- save $$$. be boring all weekend like normal and complain that we never do anything different or fun
Ps- the children will be gone for the whole weekend no matter what :) getting to enjoy time with one of my favorite midwives and her hubby
smashed baked sweet taters
3 c sweet taters- boiled, drained, mashed
1 tsp vanilla
2 eggs
1 c sugar
1/2 c melted butter
mix taters, sugar, vanilla and melted butter and eggs. beat until fluffy. place in a buttered casserole dish. mix topping to crumb stage and sprinkle on top. bake 30 min at 350
topping
1 c brown sugar
1/3 c flour
4 tsp cinnamon
1/2 - 1 c chopped nuts
1/3 c butter (NOT melted)
marshmallows (OPTIONAL. I sprinkle just marshmallows and some brown sugar on one end for those that don't eat nuts and mix nuts and marshmallows for everyone else on the rest of the pan)
even the die hard "I hate sweet taters" people in my house WILL eat this!
1 tsp vanilla
2 eggs
1 c sugar
1/2 c melted butter
mix taters, sugar, vanilla and melted butter and eggs. beat until fluffy. place in a buttered casserole dish. mix topping to crumb stage and sprinkle on top. bake 30 min at 350
topping
1 c brown sugar
1/3 c flour
4 tsp cinnamon
1/2 - 1 c chopped nuts
1/3 c butter (NOT melted)
marshmallows (OPTIONAL. I sprinkle just marshmallows and some brown sugar on one end for those that don't eat nuts and mix nuts and marshmallows for everyone else on the rest of the pan)
even the die hard "I hate sweet taters" people in my house WILL eat this!
December 9, 2010
Life lesson in the McD's parking lot
The other day Hubby had to take his work truck to one of his guys. I was to follow him and give him a ride home. Hubby left first and thought I was right behind him but Bub would not buckle up so by the time I got going I had lost him. A quick phone call and I headed to the local McD's to wait.
I pulled into a parking spot out front so I could watch for Hubby and noticed someone in the car next to me. Life was happening in my car full of cranky hungry kids who thought we were there to eat so I paid little attention to the person. Soon another car pulled up on the other side of us and caught my attention. I didn't like sitting in the dark between 2 cars with people not heading inside so I was on alert.
What I saw was crushing.
It broke my heart and gave me great pause.
It wasn't violence or filth.
It was raw human emotion.
I was watching a "child swap" between separated parents. Luggage, car seats, holidays gifts and decor moved between the cars. My truck engine and radio were on so I didn't hear the conversation but from the body language I could tell it was tense. Finally things were loaded and it was time to transfer the children. The oldest was first, probably not much younger than Bub, quickly bundled, moved to the car seat and strapped in. The second child, maybe 1 or 2 yrs old if that, clung to the parent that brought them to this place. Tears and sobbing pleas to stay with that parent filled my truck over the noise inside.
My children took notice.
Soon placed into car seats and kissed goodbye both of the kids were crying. A tense hug and the parents returned to their cars with the one now shuttling the children speeding off into the darkness. The parent left behind, the one the child clung to and cried so much for, got in the car and cranked the engine. Then the raw emotions hit and sobbing heartbreak shook the vehicle.
My children and I watched in silence.
Quickly realizing eyes were watching the person gathered composure. A desperate look shot our way and the car was gone.
I began to pray for the family in that parking lot.
I prayed for my family.
Slowly my girls started to ask questions.
"Why did they swap kids?"
"Why were the kids crying?"
"Why was that adult so upset?"
Bub kept asking about the kids and it they were OK. Then it turned personal as they all wondered if it could happen to them. My heart ached. I prayed for Hubby to get here NOW...this life lesson was not something I wanted to talk about alone with them.
Hubby and I have had our share of bad times and nearly calling it quits. This very scene is what kept us from leaving when we being too stubborn to admit we really love each other. I grew up in a broken home and vowed I would never do it to my kids. I knew this so easily could have been us if not for God.
But this lesson was deeper than just being caught in the middle of marriage tragedy. God was showing me how we over look the pain and suffering going on around us all the time. We sit in our protective bubble, trying to drown out the pain of others with the noise of the world, knowing we should help but just letting the moment pass by while we watch from comfort and safety.
I wonder if I should have done something. Should I have asked the last parent there if I could pray for them. Would it have been seen as bold and comforting or rude and intrusive?
I will never know.
My heart aches.
I pulled into a parking spot out front so I could watch for Hubby and noticed someone in the car next to me. Life was happening in my car full of cranky hungry kids who thought we were there to eat so I paid little attention to the person. Soon another car pulled up on the other side of us and caught my attention. I didn't like sitting in the dark between 2 cars with people not heading inside so I was on alert.
What I saw was crushing.
It broke my heart and gave me great pause.
It wasn't violence or filth.
It was raw human emotion.
I was watching a "child swap" between separated parents. Luggage, car seats, holidays gifts and decor moved between the cars. My truck engine and radio were on so I didn't hear the conversation but from the body language I could tell it was tense. Finally things were loaded and it was time to transfer the children. The oldest was first, probably not much younger than Bub, quickly bundled, moved to the car seat and strapped in. The second child, maybe 1 or 2 yrs old if that, clung to the parent that brought them to this place. Tears and sobbing pleas to stay with that parent filled my truck over the noise inside.
My children took notice.
Soon placed into car seats and kissed goodbye both of the kids were crying. A tense hug and the parents returned to their cars with the one now shuttling the children speeding off into the darkness. The parent left behind, the one the child clung to and cried so much for, got in the car and cranked the engine. Then the raw emotions hit and sobbing heartbreak shook the vehicle.
My children and I watched in silence.
Quickly realizing eyes were watching the person gathered composure. A desperate look shot our way and the car was gone.
I began to pray for the family in that parking lot.
I prayed for my family.
Slowly my girls started to ask questions.
"Why did they swap kids?"
"Why were the kids crying?"
"Why was that adult so upset?"
Bub kept asking about the kids and it they were OK. Then it turned personal as they all wondered if it could happen to them. My heart ached. I prayed for Hubby to get here NOW...this life lesson was not something I wanted to talk about alone with them.
Hubby and I have had our share of bad times and nearly calling it quits. This very scene is what kept us from leaving when we being too stubborn to admit we really love each other. I grew up in a broken home and vowed I would never do it to my kids. I knew this so easily could have been us if not for God.
But this lesson was deeper than just being caught in the middle of marriage tragedy. God was showing me how we over look the pain and suffering going on around us all the time. We sit in our protective bubble, trying to drown out the pain of others with the noise of the world, knowing we should help but just letting the moment pass by while we watch from comfort and safety.
I wonder if I should have done something. Should I have asked the last parent there if I could pray for them. Would it have been seen as bold and comforting or rude and intrusive?
I will never know.
My heart aches.
***identifying details have been left out to protect the family***
strangers to me but not to God
Pumpkin Dip
4 c powdered sugar
2 (8 oz) pk cream cheese
1 (30 oz) can pumpkin pie filling
2 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp ginger
combine all ingredients until well blended. (I add spice to taste and use way more than listed)
store in air tight container in the fridge. serve with fruit, graham crackers or ginger snaps
December 8, 2010
"Son-in-law" salad
a few whole pecans
1/2 pk crushed pecans
1 can crushed pineapple drained
2 small jars red cherries
2 small jars green cherries
8 oz of Cool Whip
16 oz sour cream
half pk of small marshmallows
drain all fruit, cut red cherries in halves. green cherries in quarters. set aside 10 of each color cherries. mix fruit, crushed pecans, Cool Whip, sour cream, marshmallows. pour into deep serving bowl. cover with Cool Whip and smooth top. make "flowers" on top with the cut red cherries using the green one as "leaves" and add whole pecans
this is an old family recipe on Hubby's side served every Thankgiving, Christmas or special occasion. a bit expensive but well worth it! not used as a typical "desert" but served with the meal. tangy and sweet :)
December 7, 2010
Leana's Peanut Butter Pie
1 16 oz jar of peanut butter - crunchy or smooth
1 8 oz pk softened cream cheese
3/4 c honey
1 8 oz container of Cool Whip -thawed
1 graham cracker crust or chocolate cookie crush
2 tbsp chocolate chips
1/2 tsp oil
prepare crust according to package directions. beat together cream cheese and honey until well mixed. stir in peanut butter: mix well. fold in Cool Whip gently. spoon into crust. heat chocolate chips in the microwave until melted. drizzle chocolate over pie. CHILL PIE 4 HOURS to set.
December 6, 2010
quick beef strogenoff /noodles or rice
stew meat or hamburger
1 can beef gravy
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1 pk Lipton Onion Soup Dry Mix
1 can beef froth
1/2 c sour cream
1 onion diced
2 cloves of minced garlic
sliced mushrooms
brown meat. add onions, garlic, mushrooms, broth, and dry soup mix then simmer until onions are tender. add beef gravy and mushroom soup. heat on medium until thoroughly hot. add sour cream. serve over noodles or rice
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